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Want To Quit the Day Job But Can’t Afford To? Maybe You Can…

November 30, 2007 Posted under: Making Money Online by Caroline Middlebrook

I’m sure there are a great many people who want to quit their day jobs in order to start a business making money online, or perhaps some other business but they don’t have the funds to do it.

The Standard Advice That Everybody Gives Out

Step 1 - Start Your Business On the Side

First of all, you should start working on your business on your spare time. Now this is quite feasible if it’s an online business but not so great advice if your passion is to open a restaurant.

Step 2 - Save up a Nest Egg

You cut right down on your expenditures and with the additional income that your business brings in you start to save. The idea is to save up X number of months worth of living expenses. Advice varies but it’s usually 6, 12 or 18 months worth.

Step 3 - Quit

So now you have enough money to live on for several months and your business is already earning a small income so you quit your day job so you can work at it full time. Hopefully you’ll have built up the income from the business before your nest egg wears out.

It all sounds so easy when you put it like that doesn’t it?

Why That Advice Sucks For Many People

1) It Drains Your Life Blood

Many people who want to quit their day jobs have this desire because they’ve been doing it for years and years. They are sick of it, they realise that there is more to life than office politics / stacking shelves / <insert your job here>, and they want more. I would speculate that the longer somebody has been employed, the more likely they are to reach this decision.

A lot of the time, people find themselves in this mindset at a time in their lives when they have families and they want to provide more for their families, take them to see the world, send their kids to college and so on.

If you spend all your spare time working at this business it takes you away from your family, your friends, your hobbies. It drains all of your energy which is self defeating because to be creative in business you need to be energetic, enthusiastic and full of passion. How many people feel like that after a full day at the office?

2) Your Day Job Suffers

How many of you are reading this post at work? Yes you - the one with the browser open in the background when you’re supposed to be working! In the final weeks of my job I am ashamed to admit that my mind was not on the job. Even when I was reading blogs at work, I was thinking about my business ideas.

If you are in an industry where you need to think to do your work, and your mind is on your business all day long, your work will suffer! Maybe you are somebody who can completely switch off from one thing to concentrate on another. Actually I was very good at switching off from work but that didn’t really help me fix many bugs in the last few weeks. I really hope my boss no longer reads my blog! Sorry G :)

3) This Process Can Take Years

Most businesses fail in the first year. Of those that succeed, many will only be breaking even at the end of the year and it is usually well into the second year before profits are seen. This is with a full time business! How long do you think it’s going to take when you’re only doing it part time?

Now of course there are plenty of examples to prove me completely wrong here. I am a positive thinker and I believe anything is possible. However the sad fact is that many people do not have what it takes to put their energies into fully building a business whilst still giving their all to their day jobs.

But again, I am making the assumption that many of the people in this situation are like me and have already been around the block a few times. They don’t want to spend years trying to figure this out. They are not getting any younger, they have wasted enough time. The time is NOW!

So What Did I Do?

Well as I’m sure most of you know by now, I just quit. However, that wasn’t quite as reckless as it sounds. Some of you will already know about this from a podcast that I did some time ago but I would like to spell it out here as not everybody listens to those.

I Used the Equity in My House to Fund the Business

I have what is known in the UK as an offset mortgage. Rather than have a separate checking account and a mortgage, it is all one account. I have a borrowing facility to the value agreed when I bought the house. That means that at any time I can borrow up to that amount.

When you take the mortgage out your bank balance starts out as a debit in the amount of the facility. Over time you leave money in the account to reduce the debt. Over the last few years I have amassed quite a lot of equity in the house. Furthermore, when I bought it I had a large lump sum from my previous house adding to the equity in the current one.

Because of the way this type of account works, I don’t need to go the bank to ask for a loan. I simply don’t leave money in there and over time the amount I owe increases. This is how I am funding my business.

This is exactly what I did in 2003 when I went to University full time for three years at age 32.

What Are the Implications?

As long as I don’t move house, nothing changes. My circumstances are no different, I do not ‘owe’ any body any money - I have no real debts in the traditional sense.

When I decide to sell the house what happens is that however much is still owed to the mortgage company has to be deducted from the sale price of the house. So if I move before I have cleared this debt it means that I will have less money with which to buy my next house.

When I quit my job I figured this was a safe bet because I did not intend to move for around another two years at a minimum. I am confident that within a two year period I can make enough money to not only cover my expenses but also to pay back what I borrowed. If I manage to do that, the only thing I would have lost is the interest I am missing out on by not having the money in there.

What if I don’t make that money in two years? Well, can I do it in three years? Five years? Ok so I did not make any money in my first month but by taking a long term view, if I stick at this day in, day out for years I can’t possibly fail to make a living eventually!

Something I need to add in here since I originally wrote this post - I do not solely own my house, it is my partner’s house too. It was arrogant of me to make the assumption that we would not move within 2 years. As it turns out, we ARE moving now so I have to deal with the financial implications of my decision.

There is a quote that I am fond of by Steve Pavlina. Two actually. The first is:

A general rule of thumb is that people overestimate what they can accomplish in a year, but they underestimate what they can accomplish in five years.

From the post Be Patient with Yourself.

The second one is simply: “Throw about 1000 hours of hard work at just about any problem, and you’re bound to see some serious results.” He said this in regards to his public speaking efforts.

So what’s 1000 hours? Working full time for 50 hours a week, that’s 20 weeks or just 5 months. Regardless of the implications of now having to sell my house earlier than I expected, I still fully expect to make a good living so any shortfall now will eventually be made up for.

Of course that doesn’t mean I’m going to sit on my backside all day and let time pass me by. No, I am making every effort to focus my activities towards my goals.

What Does This Mean For You?

Most people arrange their finances such that they are barely living within their means. I won’t bore you with lectures about being frugal blah blah. Instead I’ll advise you to look around at your assets.

Do you have equity in your home that you can tap into like I did? I can only speak from the standpoint of the UK but I am sure that other countries have similar kinds of mortgages and the main asset that people invest into during their adult lives is their home.

If that is not the case then do you have any other assets that you can liquidate to raise cash? Could you sell a car? If you live in certain parts of the US then may not be feasible at all, but if you live in a city like London in the UK then a car is really just a pain in the backside. Have a look around and see if you can find something that works for you.

If you are lucky enough to have been able to get through life without being sued, experiencing a medical emergency, or having assets wiped out by some unfortunate incident then I urge you to take a look at your financial situation and see if perhaps you are sitting on an opportunity that you don’t know is there.

Some people don’t realise what assets they have managed to accrue over their lifetimes.

What If You Are Young?

Throughout this post I have made the assumption that you are an adult, probably settled with a family and with a home and lifestyle that drains most of your regular income.

However if you are still young, free and single then you can be more creative. When I was 23 I moved about 70 miles away from my home town for a job that gave me a large increase on my current salary. As I had no ties at the time I just rented a really cheap (and nasty!) room within walking distance from my work place.

In the six months that I lived there I saved a lot of money and I used it to buy the house before my current one. If I had been so inclined I could have used it to start a business instead but that was at a time when I had just closed down my first four year business so I was in an employment phase.

When you’re young and have no commitments you can live cheap, you can work extra hard, you can do whatever it takes because you don’t have anybody else relying on you. Of course this doesn’t just apply to the young - you might be in your 30’s, 40′ or older and be in a position where you have no financial or family responsibilities - in which case, make the most of it while it lasts!

What If The Odds Are Stacked Against You?

  • You’re young but you already have family commitments
  • You were doing fine until something happened to wipe you out financially
  • You’re sitting on a mountain of debt
  • and so on…

Everybody has different circumstances. I was lucky in that I do have a financial asset behind me, which is the equity in my home. If I didn’t have that, I honestly don’t know whether or not I would be here now writing this post.

I don’t have any advice for those who are truly unfortunate as I am simply not qualified to give it. I can offer some hope though. If you look around will always be to find inspirational stories of people who have succeeded in life and got what they wanted against all the odds.

Conclusion

This post could be construed as reckless advice - telling people to just go quit their jobs. But that is not what I am doing. I am trying to reach out to those people who DO have hidden assets and perhaps allow them to explore the possibility that they could tap into it. People could be sitting on opportunities that they never knew existed.

Disclaimer

Note that I am not giving out financial advice here. I am not a financial professional and I don’t make any claims that any of this stuff will work for you. I’m simply outlining my own experiences in the hope that it might lead to opportunities that you have overlooked.

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28 Comments:

Kexster
November 30, 2007

Thanks for the personal history and the quick lesson in managing your assets. I think most people here can get some important points. Place some of your money into assets that appreciate in value like houses and less of your money into cars. You do this for the long term view not for the next two years.

I must admit it is easier to take a long term view at 50 years old than it was at 25 years old. Other sources of assets might be an insurance policy your parents started for you when you were a child. You might be able to get 2,000 USD or even 10,000 USD from that source.

When I was 30 I went off on my own to start a business. I used the money that was in my pension after working for 10 years. Six months later I was looking for another job, but I have never regretted quitting and the experience.

Wishing you all the best on the move. Stay positive, we love your writings.

Olakunle Solomon Fatoye
November 30, 2007

1. Welcome Back!
2. Why did you go away for so long? ;-(
3. Well, my comment and off I go…
4. Shoot for the moon. Even if you miss, you’ll land among the stars. - Les Brown (Your story sums this up - action makes the difference)
5. We all start with all there is. It’s how we use it that makes things possible. - Henry Ford (Have you ever seen a Ford Car? You should read the story of Henry Ford)
6. You may be disappointed if you fail, but you are doomed if you don’t try. - Beverly Sills (No looking back when you start especially when you have a story - I reserve mine for another day!)
7. Thanks for resuming back Caroline and don’t you go away again ever! ;-)
8. High regards, –OSF.

chipseo
November 30, 2007

Glad to see you are back, hope you are feeling better. Great article as always… there are so many issues involved with working for yourself but I think the biggest one is the decision to just do it. We gave up our day jobs here about 15 years ago and it may be a rocky road at times but we still eat every day :)

Heather
November 30, 2007

I was 40 when I quit my job to start my training business. I used to describe it as ‘jumping off the mountain and hoping the parachute would open’. In retrospect I was more confident than that but it took a while to figure that one out. With my husband’s support we then took the biggest jump and emigrated from UK to Canada which took even more of a leap of faith, since we burned our bridges and sold our house!

Since then we developed a niche business and my blog is built from becoming an expert in that. My view is that you take Goethe’s sage advice, “Whatever you can do, or dream you can, begin it. Genius had boldness, power and magic in it”.

And Caroline, I love that you are a Steve Pavlina reader too!

Lea Woodward
November 30, 2007

Hope you’re fully recovered and fighting fit again!

Can I add another way?

You could do what my husband and I are doing after he was made redundant last year…which is to have built businesses which allow us to work from anywhere with an internet connection (he’s a designer and illustrator and I work on lots of different projects which include coaching/consulting etc.).

We then live in different countries for several months at a time - often with far cheaper costs of living than the UK - which takes the pressure off any fledgling businesses/projects and allows you to squirrel away more money in the meantime.

Obviously it’s not for everyone - but it is another option…

George
November 30, 2007

I have two friends who did the same thing as you and they had really good success. I am unfortunately not in a good position to take that risk… at this point in time.

Eventually anyone who wants to make a living online will eventually need to quit their day job. Even if you are making enough money online to support yourself and your family, it is a risky decision and involves some level of courage.

Affiliate Truth
November 30, 2007

Nice summary of how you went about things Caroline, I know you have put in a great deal of work and in turn are now starting to see some rewards!

In my case I had the importance of making money thrust at me when I had to make the decision between a full time contract or take the plunge! It was one hell of a plunge but I have to say I have never looked back.

Keep up the good work and the fantastic content!

Steve

Kate Saltfleet
November 30, 2007

I don’t think that the quit your job line is reckless advice. The other side of the coin is that you are too cautious and spend forever researching options but then never deciding on one niche and just going for it (can you tell I’m doing Codrut’s Challenge!).

Whether you do it part time or full time, at some time you have to take the plunge (I’m still *preparing* you know?).

serge
November 30, 2007

I was 21 the last time I had a boss. That was back in 93. Now my bosses are my companies and my wife… go figure.

Good advice. I believe there is one other factor that you could have included in getting money to start a business- barrow from family. But, that only works if your family (or friends) have money to loan and believe in what you trying to do.

Evan Hadkins
December 1, 2007

Thanks Caroline.

Excellent advice I think.

For those of us with no assets, like me, it is doing what we can as we can in little bits and pieces. It is a schooling in patience.

Evan

Kevin @ Change Your Tree
December 1, 2007

I do not agree with this advice. In terms of financial advice, it’s probably the worst of the worst.

In fact, the advice you claimed was “standard” at the beginning of your post is actually far better the than advice you gave, in my opinion (and the opinion of most sound financial people).

Businesses can be built with far less risk when you use cash rather than debt. To put your home at risk on top of using debt is suicide.

I’d also like to note; Who cares if “it takes years?” Building businesses usually DOES take time. Every time I’ve read the book, the tortoise beats the hare. It never changes. The truth is that people who always look for a short cut end up lost in the woods.

Caroline I have started more than a few businesses in my life. I have a similar plan to quit my day job for this one. My plan may be a little less ambitious than yours but by summer of next year I hope to be on my own again. Once you get entrepreneurs blood moving through your system its hard to shake. I have had the disease since I was 17 and I will turn 51 this month. You have a distinct advantage, You have passion for what you are doing. What is the absolute worse thing that can happen is the question I always ask myself. Hard work is what got you where you are , hard work is what will keep you there, actually I should have said smart work, Oops just got an idea for an article , see ya soon

Matt Jones
December 1, 2007

Haha I never got a job. Blogging for a living from the very start! :)

Caroline Middlebrook
December 1, 2007

@Olakunle, ahh I was only really away for a few days, I’ve been rather ill :) Thanks for all the quotations, they’re lovely.

@Chipseo, yes that’s right. If you explore options you can find a dozen reasons why it wont work or a dozen reasons why it will, but when you just take the plunge you are forced to figure it out!

@Lea, you know I have been thinking about that myself. My work now needs little more than a laptop and an Internet connection which really does open up options as I am not tied to a place of work.

@George, yes I think it boils down to how the individual feels about the values of freedom v security. I have always craved freedom more than security. Somebody else who values security highly would not be so quick to make such a decision.

@Kate, it’s good to prepare because when you do make the plunge it gives you more confidence.

@Serge, yeah that’s a tricky one for me. I have an odd family - two brothers and all three of us have been in business for ourselves for most of our lives to the absolutely horror of our mother who would much prefer that we all had nice safe day jobs! I only told my mother that I quit my job last week! She was okay with it once she got over the shock :)

@Kevin, well as I stated in the disclaimer, it was not meant as advice at all. I am simply sharing my story and inviting people to explore their own options.

@Matt, now that’s the way to do it! Get started before you get tied down and then you’re set for life!

Wayne Liew
December 1, 2007

Young, this is a word that I like. I have enjoyed being a young blogger, from being praised as being “talented” when I have a blogspot blog now to the now uphill task of building a dot com presence and testing out the waters of various online businesses.

I used to have this thought that pushes me to be more entrepreneurial and entrepreneurial is the word that pushed to start blogging. The thought is “If I am young, I can make more mistakes which elder people (sorry folks) might not able to make”. :lol:

On the flip side, I don’t think being young on the Internet doesn’t mean people will be kind and give you a second chance just because you are young. Starting out young knowing nothing might set you up for some harsh tones by some “kids-haters” out there.

Corinne Edwards
December 1, 2007

Caroline - you are dreaming.

I feel you should ALWAYS start something on the side to protect you from financial ruin.

Unless, you have substantial resources which do not include your home.

Second, and most important. Work in the field you are interested in for someone else.

Make your mistakes on someone else’s money.

Most businesses fail in the first year because of lack of experience and of course, shaky financials.

Caroline Middlebrook
December 1, 2007

@Wayne, yep you are in an excellent position to get started at your age.

@Corinne, YES I am dreaming! I love to dream and what’s that quote? “Dream no small dreams for they have not the power to move the hearts of men”.

I’ve already worked for somebody else, and I’ve got plenty of experience and plenty of mistakes behind me. Been there, done that, got the t-shirt, ready to move on. I’ve already had two successful businesses, this will be number 3.

I will be protected from financial ruin by my drive, determination and passion.

Corinne Edwards
December 1, 2007

Caroline, I am DREAMING THE BEST for you!

We are all watching and waiting to learn.

The warmest wishes for your success!

Corinne

lissie
December 2, 2007

Caroline I don’t always agree with your posts but this one is 100% where I am. When I was doing the job I hated I slept 10 hours a day, went to work for about 8 ( wouldnt say worked) and spent another 2 hours or so showering, lunch, commuting - so that left 24 hrs for life! I just didnt have time to site down and the learn new skills! I am extremely lucky that my partner is currently supporting me in my endevour, but at some point if Iam not making a reasonable online income inside 6 months I will pick up some manual cleaning job who will pay be for my body not my mind. A professional job you hate sucks the life from you!
Yes using your home equity is a risk -but unless you are already borrowed 90% its not a very high one. We used equity to borrow - I have done the figures recently but I suspect that we are ahead once Iget the house re-valued.

Mitchell Allen
December 2, 2007

This is a gutsy post, Caroline. Too many people that haven’t already made a boatload of money are afraid to take the stance you’ve taken on your blog. (Heck, I know I am! I’ve told my story about quitting, but I never recommend that option for anyone.)

I admire your attitude, as expressed in this snippet:

What if I don’t make that money in two years? Well, can I do it in three years? Five years? Ok so I did not make any money in my first month but by taking a long term view, if I stick at this day in, day out for years I can’t possibly fail to make a living eventually!

Cheers,

Mitch

Teejay
December 2, 2007

I want to quit my job. That I know. But I think it will take me years to accomplish that.

I guess I will do a side business until I can quit this job.

bmunch
December 2, 2007

The question really isn’t whether you want to quit your job, but what do you want to do.

Looking for you what you want to do and knowing more about it will lead to a natural progression until such time, you WILL know you can quit your job.

Knowing minimally about what you want to do after you quit your job will lead to failure 90% of the time.

Caroline Middlebrook
December 2, 2007

@lissie, yes that’s right and what is worse is that for so many people, they let their dreams DIE while they are slaving away at the day job they hate and then they never get to live that dream.

@Mitch, hehe thanks :)

@Teejay, that’s the position I was in - thinking it would take me years and I just wasn’t prepared to wait any more years as I am not getting any younger.

@Bmunch, I know what I want to do in the broad perspective, but the details are fuzzy - but that’s ok for me because it keeps my mind open to opportunities that I might otherwise pass over.

Sol Lederman
December 2, 2007

Caroline,

I completely agree with your post. I jumped off the cliff a month ago and I haven’t died. I’m living my dream and my blog is up from something like 8 readers to over 100 today, in less than a month. And, I’ve been commissioned (yes, paid) to create, write for, and manage someone else’s blog. This is great as I want to make my living online.

Yes, I have savings, and I’m doing some projects for my ex-boss that are bringing in some income, although I’ll be dipping into savings soon.

For some time I wanted to do my own blog, and learn all about Internet Marketing, but my day job sucked me dry. So, finally I quit!

Yes, it’s not for everyone, but it’s been the perfect choice for me.

Mark Alexander
December 4, 2007

Caroline, another awesome post, congratulations on making some money, i am still waiting for my site to generate steady cash.

It is fantastic that you are being transperant, in how hard it is, so many people promote that it easy to make money on the net for little or no work.

I have spent 4 months geting my site to where it is today, and it has been bloody hard work sometimes. This was all done part time and on a budget of $750

In saying that though ,I am now getting 1 person per day, opting in to my list, and the traffic stats are increasing each month.

My ideal plan is to make a full time living from my site, and my stock market investing, every day I am getting closer to this goal.

Finally i would like to say, that on the odd day that things have been tough, i have taken a little snipet of something from your blog caroline, and it has helped kept me inspired.

Keep up the good work,

Regards
Mark.

Caroline Middlebrook
December 4, 2007

@Mark, that’s really nice to know that I can be an inspiration to somebody out there. That’s why I blog really - I’m hoping that I can be succesful and share what I learn to allow others to do the same.

Ada
December 8, 2007

Hi Caroline. Just found your blog today and it makes ineresting reading. Definitely not full of fluff - very action-oriented. I left my job when we moved about 18 months ago and decided to take a break for family reasons. I can’t say most people are in my position because we can survive quite well with just my husband’s income. However the exerience I got from setting up my own blog has payed off. I’ve set up blogs for some other people and got paid for it. Have another setup in the works. While it may not be classified as regular income, at least all the hair-pulling and frustration I went through working on my own blogs is paying off. And I LUUURVE being able to work from anywhere in the world. very liberating.

Dave Pulsford
April 20, 2008

I’m not sure that using an offset mortgage in this manner makes sense. If you don’t have funds in the account to help keep down the interest payments then the overall ‘extra’ to pay can become an expensive ‘loan’.

Dave Pulsfords last blog post..Flexible Mortgage - what are flexible mortgages


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